Thursday, May 26, 2011

Things that strike me as funny....in a serious way

Families aren't really families anymore. There is no bond,just individuals existing together....how sad.

When people come to see a movie, they instantly pull out their phones and start texting....how funny.

When a single mother has an ex who doesn't pay child support he's a deadbeat dad (usually he is) but when a single father has an ex who doesn't pay child support just because she's the" mother" no one bats an eye....how infuriating.

While on infuriating topics, when you hear that someone who owes over 30,000 dollars in child support for a child he already has and cant take care of is blissfully happy with his new pregnant girlfriend.

Wednesday, May 18, 2011

Change

Have you ever run into a friend you haven't seen in years and said, "Wow, you sure have changed?" We can change our appearance. We can lose weight, gain weight, cut our hair, grow it out, dye it....there's a million different ways we can change our appearance. But "can a zebra really ever change its stripes"? Do you think people really change who they are? Or are we just who we are and that's it? We can want to change, and even know what we want to change, and then we can try to change, but in the end we are who we are, probably who we always were, and who we we always will be. People don't change. Not really, not deep down in the core of our souls. That's why a cheater is always a cheater, a liar is always a liar, and a thief is always a thief. To hide from who we are would be lying to ourselves, and who can we be honest with if not ourselves?

Saturday, May 14, 2011

Change

They say you should never change for a person. But don't we all do changing for the person were with? We listen to their kind of music (some of us) or we watch the movies they like because we want to be a part of their world. But how much change is too much? When do we start changing so much we lose ourselves? And what happened to people just accepting us as we are? There may be certain aspects of ones personality  one has to deal with, but if you really love that person wouldn't you put up with those things without making that person feel like a lesser person? Just some things bouncing around in my head